absolutly no?u know when its comes a matter of falling in love what i can say is dat its inevitable since its come naturally as long as we are all born for love this is the principal of existance being in love is a feeling like any other feelings as you can not stop a person experience, may be a pain as well you can not stop a person falling in love but most of the time when a person fall in love we tend to made uncorrect move thats why u may here people say wait this is not ur right time to engage in love affair. for really love is craizy when ur in love ur madness